Let me just preemptively say, yes, I need a life. (Even though mine is really good on balance.)
So this is the double-header, another big Friday night for the single guy: Into The Wild, a Sean Penn true story about a young dude tortured by his parent’s dysfunction, who decides to go all anti-materialistic semi-hippie, loner, which eventually kills him. Followed by The Truman Show, which I’ve only seen once or twice, a long time ago, about The reality TV show, with an unknowing protagonist played, IMO, quite well by Jim Carrey.
I really enjoyed both films. But such an odd juxtaposition given the times we live in.
I relate a lot to both primary characters. I spend an allegedly unhealthy amount of time alone, and an equally allegedly unhealthy amount of time bummed out by being watched all the time, in pretty much every sense of the word when I’m not alone.
Color me unconvinced about the unhealthiness of both.
In any case, I highly recommend the two movies in a row. Gets a person to thinkin’. Two characters involved in thematically different, but incredibly similar struggles. It would be easy to characterize the struggle as the “search for self,” but that cliche does nothing but make me laugh. I think a better description is fighting the bullshit on one’s own terms.
I’ve been telling my friends and family that an odd sense of fatalistic calm has come over me recently. I’m secure about loving and being loved, I’ve lived a good honest and open life, I’ve done my best to follow The Golden Rule, and I think life is just the most remarkable thing.
Except the ending part, of course. The strange thing is that I’m so calm about that part, too.
I will control what I can, which is my nature. But I’ve no illusions about the things I can’t.
The only thing I can say for sure is that I’m not missing, or merely spectating, in the next revolution.
And there was something deeply profound in both movies, more explicitly put in Into The Wild, where the character (a real person) writes things down. The last thing in the movie he writes down is, I think I have it right, “Happiness is only real when it is shared.” (That’s close.)
People ask me why I don’t travel alone, all the time.